You’ve managed the demands of everyday life for years. You’ve developed routines, found ways to cope, and perhaps learned to mask parts of yourself to fit in. So why does everything suddenly feel harder? For some Autistic women, perimenopause and menopause can bring more than hot flushes and disrupted sleep. Brain fog, heightened sensory sensitivities, emotional overwhelm and difficulties with attention can intensify existing challenges — sometimes uncovering previously unrecognised Autism and ADHD.
Menopause symptom onset, presentation, severity and duration of symptoms are highly variable amongst women. Menopause affects the endocrine system which leads to reduced production of progesterone and estrogen and can result in increased fatigue, depletion of energy levels. Previous health conditions can also worsen.
The brain is significantly affected as the overall neurochemistry is altered. Neurotransmitter regulation, including serotonin, dopamine and GABA (gamma-aminobutyric acid), can alter, and brain areas involved in regulation of body temperature and sleep are disrupted. The limbic system—responsible for emotion and stress regulation and the main culprit for the “fight-or-flight” response, and the prefrontal cortex— responsible for decision making, impulse control and higher order executive functions, are also implicated. This can lead to mood swings, “brain fog”, increased anxiety and memory difficulties. It is therefore not uncommon to see prior mental health conditions worsen. Research shows that symptomatic Autistic females experiencing menopause are more likely to experience depression, anxiety, migraines/headaches, sleep disturbance and altered sexual functioning.¹ For those with ADHD (which is common within the Autistic population), ADHD-related symptoms can exacerbate during this time.
“Autistic menopause” is the topic of a growing conversation and body of research to understand neurodivergent women’s experiences. Existing research indicates that menopause for Autistic women brings additional cognitive changes, heightened sensory sensitivities, emotion regulation challenges including mood swings, depression, anxiety and sleep disturbances.²˒³˒⁴
Experiencing perimenopause and menopause can prompt women to seek assessment for Autism and/or ADHD. Why? Because the significant impact of cognitive and body changes has resulted in previously masked and hidden autism characteristics becoming more apparent, prompting a re-evaluation of previous diagnosis or mental health challenges. In other words, previous life-long strategies of masking of autism traits and behaviours likely sufficed until the demands and impacts of menopause rendered these coping mechanisms unsustainable.⁵ Masking in this regard means the conscious (or subconscious) suppression or concealment of autistic traits to appear neurotypical.
Qualitative research into the experiences of Autistic women have revealed a “double-impact” of symptoms. Brain fog resulted in disruption to routine and life structure (when change and unpredictability are already natural struggles), hot flushes were equated to body shutdown and overwhelm, and sensory sensitivities – while already impactful – seemed to intensify even more leading to significant distress. Existing challenges in attention or focus can worsen, and interoceptive challenges mean that somatic and emotional cues are further disorientated. Other experiences included depression symptoms that felt so intense as it was paired with emotion dysregulation and described as feeling “more than physical”.⁶ Overall, research suggests a more intense impact on the neurology of autistic women during menopause.⁷˒⁸
What does this mean? There is growing evidence to indicate that menopause symptoms can therefore be more pronounced for autistic women. Lifelong masking and suppression of neurodivergent traits, often shaped by social and familial norms and expectations, can become harder to sustain during perimenopause and menopause. The systems and strategies that once helped someone cope may unravel under the impactful changes of perimenopause and menopause.
What can I do if this sounds like me? Finding a supportive and knowledgeable GP in women’s health to guide you through the next steps can be beneficial. You may also wish to discuss with a medical practitioner the benefit of assessment by a psychologist if neurodivergence (Autism and/or ADHD) is indicated.
Gaining clarity about your health, mental health, wellbeing and neurotype is a useful starting point. Diagnosis can be informative, but it can also prompt the question “ok, so now what – what does this mean for me?”. Psychological therapy can help you navigate this journey, identify sensory accommodations, and manage depression, anxiety and stress through neuro-affirming, strengths-based approaches. Ultimately, therapy can deepen your understanding of your unique experience and support improved wellbeing and quality of life.
Endnotes
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